If you wanna buy a dildo as a surprise for your wife, you need to know a lot of necessary information about choosing it from the women’s perspective. In this way, can you buy a realistic dildo for your wife? A right dildo may open a new world for you and your wife. Then, let me guide you to the way filled with feasibility.

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1. DOES SIZE MATTER?

Whether you notice that your wife wants a more significant size dick? If she has ever wanted a much larger one, you can buy a dildo a little larger than your dick. More specifically,1 inch longer and 1/2 thicker than your dick.

When you are ready to use this toy with her, please ask her permission first. Otherwise, don’t blame me; there may be embarrassing things.

Make sure she’s as horny as possible before working the pre-warmed, pre-lubed dildo inside her, going slowly and a trifle deeper each time. It makes no difference if she doesn’t take it all the first time; believe me, she will sooner or later.

2. HOW TO MAKE GENERAL CHOICES?

First, you need to figure out a question: does she normally orgasm in response to g-spot or clitoral stimuli?

If your wife prefers penetrative/g-spot stimulation, a dildo is a terrific place to start, but there are many other exciting options. Dildo vibes and Rabbits appear more popular than the typical penis-shaped penetrator.

3. HOW TO CHOOSE THE BEST MATERIALS?

THE BEST MATERIALS:

Silicone: Silicone is a material that is often used inside sex toys. It makes the toy very stylized and realistic and makes it easier to bend so that a person can use it. As for the price, it is more expensive than materials with chemical ingredients because it is a very durable material.

Stainless steel: This material looks very nice and upscale. It is a material without holes and cleaning it up is very easy. You just put it inside the dishwasher and add a little bleach, or you can just put it inside boiling water for cleaning.

Borosilicate glass: This material is excellent for making sex toys because it’s not toxic or porous and doesn’t change shape at high temperatures. To clean it, all you have to do is put it in the dishwasher.

Glass rocks: This material toy is suitable for people who want to strengthen their PC muscles. The sturdy texture can help you perform Kegel exercises. It is also just put inside the dishwasher to clean.

THE WORST MATERIALS :

Jelly: While it may be cheaper and look realistic, it is chemically laden. It contains phthalates.

Rubber: This material is widespread in sex toys. However, it has a pungent odor, can cause allergic reactions, and is porous, so be sure to use it with condoms.

PVC and vinyl: These two materials can make the toy softer, but both are cheap materials that contain phthalates. They harm people, so please avoid these materials when buying them.

After you read the parts above, I believe you must feel that the presence of chemical components in toys is hazardous. Next, let’s further explore the chemical elements in sex toys and methods for you to avoid them.

4. WHAT KINDS OF CHEMICAL COMPOSITION DO YOU NEED TO AVOID?

Some toys contain chemicals that are harmful to humans. These compounds can cause itching, burns, rashes, and tissue damage on the skin.

Phthalates are a frequent substance found in sex toys. Phthalates are compounds that bond together substances and make plastics more flexible. This chemical is commonly found in the rubber of low-cost toys. Phthalates have become a significant public health hazard in the last two decades. Phosphate exposure has been related to various disorders, including male reproductive issues, obesity, type 2 diabetes, asthma, neurodevelopmental problems, and others.

As a result, numerous well-known sex toy stores, like The Smitten Kitten, Babeland, Good Vibrations, and others have ensured that the things they sell are phthalate-free.

Even though some stores have already taken action, you should also pay attention to the chemical components in sex toys when you buy them from whatever stores. Unfortunately, even though the box states “phthalate-free,” it is not unusual for sex toys to contain dangerous ingredients.

Nonetheless, it is critical to read all of the components specified on the container to guarantee safety. Other compounds to be aware of include:

Phenols
Chloride of methylene stannous
Disulfide of carbon
Admiralty of Toluene

Attention: If your wife is during pregnancy or nursing, these substances may affect the baby. They are also damaging to the central nervous system, which will cause disastrous consequences.

Finally, there is a method to check for hazardous compounds. That is, to conduct an odor test. The toy is made of a chemical component if the goods have a strong odor.

5.WHAT KIND OF THE DESIGN AND SHAPE SHOULD YOU CHOOSE?

Dildos come in a variety of designs and shapes, often making buyers feel dazzled. Therefore, before looking at a specific product, it is best to decide on the body of the dildo you want to buy so that you have a broad range to pick from. If you are buying for your wife, you must check out more information online and consider every detail from a woman’s point of view.

The design is generally divided into the type of simulation and the type of surreal. These two types’ differences are excellent, so they must bring different feelings.

If you want a simulation of the toy, then you can pick an extensive range. This design is widespread among dildos because of the simulation. And there are many high-end dildos for you to choose from. You can ask your wife sideways what type of dildo she wants in general. By the way, these simulated toys can feel very similar to actual sex, which means that the experience you get with these toys is very natural.

If you want to buy your wife a dildo that has a more surreal design, that’s fine too. These types of dildos can be very effective for women who want some of the more challenging experiences. For example, suppose you want your wife to achieve a G-spot orgasm. In that case, these dildos are your best tool because their different shapes can be more irregular for some sensitive areas of stimulation and are more powerful than your fingertips. With this toy, you can give your wife continuous G-spot stimulation.

Of course, there are many different shapes and designs of dildos, and these different looks can stimulate other areas. Each dildo is unique; for example, a class of dildos can produce both the clitoris and the G-spot. In short, a dildo is a tool to help you achieve your dreams, everything is possible, so you still have to decide what shape of toy you want to go for when you buy. Specifically, what sensitive areas and parts of your wife do you want to stimulate with a dildo and then make the dildo purchase based on your needs?

6. WHAT DO YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT DILDO BASE?

When choosing a dildo, although this is not a very important detail to consider, I think it is worth considering. Because dildo bases come in all kinds of shapes, just like dildos. And the different bases all serve other purposes.

In general, there are two broad types.

The first is the suction cup dildo base – this device is very convenient. You can suck them in different places, such as the table, the refrigerator, the bathroom wall, the bedroom, or the living room floor. That said, these toys are better suited for the excitement-filled lovemaking process. Using this toy is very sexy and romantic and can make your wife feel pleasure which must be a very pleasurable process.

The flared dildo base is the second type of toy that can be used on a strap-on harness. They are easily fastened to a harness, allowing the dildo to dangle securely.

Other possibilities exist, such as ball-based dildos, although they are in the minority, and it doesn’t matter whether the dildo has a ball base or a conventional base. In my perspective, the existence or absence of suction cups, which are the most useful, is more important.

7. WOMEN NEED LARGE VARIETIES OF SEX TOYS.

If one of you is a beginner at using sex toys, try not to buy a huge dildo like the horse dildo. You know, those styles are too scary. That is not good for starting your guys’ history of playing with sex toys.
Buy some small dildos or vibrators, which can begin by stimulating the clitoris. After doing that, then you can communicate with your wife and search for other toys you guys wanna try.

In all, you can use a variety of sex tools to elevate your sex life. The most important life, no matter in the body or mind. If you make up your mind to buy a dildo for your wife, just go for it through what I have mentioned above.