I wonder if you who are reading this blog have tried, for example, horse or walrus sex toys? If you have never purchased one or are still on the fence about how to use one, then this article is for you. From the looks of it, these dildos have a greater than average length and girth, which makes them look very intimidating and creates a psychological feeling of being unable to control them. But they are still trendy because they make the vagina and anus feel full of pleasure, which makes them very pleasurable.
PREPARE IN ADVANCE
Before you play with a huge dildo, you must prepare to make the whole process go more smoothly.
First, you need to slowly adjust your mood, not too excited and not too nervous, and try to calm down a little to go to the next step.
You will find that everything becomes more manageable after you have tuned yourself mentally. You can play with huge dildos of all sizes, whether small, medium, or large.
As long as you are well prepared, you can better enjoy the whole process of getting along with a giant toy.
CLEAN YOUR HUGE DILDO
You can clean your dildo with water or an anti-saliva reagent. This is a step you have to go through before you start. Otherwise, your body could be harmed, for example, by infection and inflammation.
Remember that you must wash the toys before and after use, because you may use them both vaginally and anally, which is very dirty. Cleaning correctly will ensure the health of each process. You must be responsible for yourself and your partner.
USE A GOOD QUALITY LUBRICANT
You need to use a good-quality personal lubricant before you proceed with penetration. You must apply the oil on top of the huge dildo near your genitals. The personal lubricant will reduce friction and moisten both the toy and the genitals so that the huge dildo becomes easier to insert.
If you are going to have anal sex, you must use an anal lubricant. Because the anus is incapable of physical lubrication, it is straightforward to get hurt when you have anal sex without using lubricant. Remember, it’s a lubricant specifically for the anus. They usually have a high viscosity, so they don’t dry out quickly.
By the way, here are methods of inserting a huge anal dildo.
First, you need to do a deep cleanse of your intestines, which you can do three times using a 2-quart enema bag. The standard for a cleanse is that the water is clear. (Please be patient for an extra thirty minutes for the last edit, as there may be a delay in completely cleaning the bowel.) Remember: do not use salt, soap, or other harsh substances.
Then, you can start your play. You can buy a small size toy. And apply the lube to the relevant area (go as deep as possible) and to the toy (lube the whole thing).
Next, you can lie flat on your back. You’ll need to put a pillow under your buttocks and ensure the lube flows in your direction. Once you’re all relaxed, start inserting the toy into your bowels.
When you reach the bottom, you will get the sigmoid curve. Apply gentle but constant pressure. (You should feel pressure, but not pain.) Relax, wait and continue to apply pressure. This may take 3 to 4 minutes. The sigmoid flap will slowly open. After a few more inches, the dildo should be able to slide freely. At this point, it may slide in completely, or you may face another curve. This depends mainly on your anatomy and body type. If you hit another corner, do the same thing you did before: push hard and wait. There is no sphincter here, only flexion. It should be accepted. You should now have complete access.
Don’t force it in and out the first few times, and enjoy the sensation. You can insert the end directly into the rectum (trust me, it won’t get lost) and walk around a bit. You will notice some relaxed movements as it gets into a comfortable position.
For me, half the fun is eliminating it. Try to determine if you want to pull it out or simply muscle it. If you want to go deeper, get a colon snake with all holes; you need to be able to get lube when you’re two feet or higher.
Warning: you may feel pressure, but not pain. If your toy does not move forward, try pulling the toy out a little, and then start swinging the toy slowly.
FOREPLAY FIRST
Foreplay is the first step in the whole process, and you must take advantage of such a valuable period. If you do it right, it can be the icing on the cake, but if you mess up, then you will find the whole process becomes complex.
Foreplay is helpful and will bring you and your partner to the best emotional state. At the same time, you can watch some sex videos to aid this process. By the way, no matter how many extra surprises and fun details you add throughout the process, you should keep stimulating your sensitive areas with each other, and this direct approach is still the best.
In addition, it is imperative to awaken the vagina and anus during this process. You and your partner can also add a few more exciting things to make these goals achievable, such as performing oral sex or masturbation, because masturbation and oral sex can make you more interested and confident in the game and will also awaken your innermost desires.
Of course, you can also use toys such as vibrators to perform foreplay, but doing so may cause some trouble and trouble. What I mean by this is that you may reach orgasm because of the early stimulation, and afterward, the sensations will become a little more sluggish when you get to the main event. Just like people say, “going too far is as bad as not going far enough.”
BE GENTLE
Professional sexologists say that if you are just beginning to contact large-scale dildos, you’d better start with the most miniature toys. Remember, don’t rush to try the most attractive one because it is difficult to grasp the large size, and it takes time to find the one that best suits you.
You can put a pillow under your hips, then relax your whole body, and finally start to try from the smallest size. Before that, you need to do the foreplay I mentioned earlier. Don’t worry. Just take your time.
In addition, you can squat down to try these toys so that the depth can be controlled, and it helps you find a suitable rhythm.
PRACTICE
All perfect sex play process comes from practice makes perfect. First, you can prepare your large dildo. Then, apply the lubricant to the responsive area (I mentioned it in the previous article). Finally, start the formal practice. You just need to take your time to explore, stay relaxed, and treat it as a fun time.
In all, we cannot always be the master of our life. There are many difficulties we encounter. But we can become the truth in our sex life. We can freely follow the inner voice in our hearts.